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Silent Thoughts – Genuine Giving vs Love and Gratitude

30 Jan 2008 | Wisdom |  10 comments
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Genuine Giving vs Love and Gratitude

English Translation
It is genuine giving that brings humanity
To relate to one another with love and gratitude

Original Mandarin Version
付出才能有爱与感恩的互动

Deimos Analyzes
Again, I shall give examples on how this theory can be applied in Cyberspace.

EntreCard
1. Pinrut genuinely dropped an EntreCard into Mas’s EntreCard Inbox
2. Mas is appreciative of Pinrut’s gestures
3. Proceeds to drop back a Reciprocative EntreCard back into Pinrut’s EntreCard inbox

Easy enough aye? Here’s another one:

You Comment, I Happy
1. Pinrut genuinely commented on one of the article in Mas’s blog
2. Mas is happy and totally appreciative
3. Proceeds to check out Pinrut’s blog to check out articles of interest
4. Reads up articles, comments back sincerely

I hope these two (2) examples are not too hard to digest.

Deimos’s Thoughts
I wonder if the above two (2) examples are applicable, them ought to be I reckon.

Been blogging since 8 October 2007, though it was in November 2007 that I steered my blog in a more desired direction than what it originally started out as. Another few more days and I would have blogged for like four (4) months, during this period of three (3) months plus, I discovered that the Blogsphere can be quite un-sincere, cruel, brutal, materialistic at times.

Why so? I’ll just list out a few facts aye:
1. Un-Sincere comments
[Commented before even finish reading up the article]

2. Un-Sincere reply to comments
[Replied without fully understanding the comment]

3. I comment, you happy, but you never comment back on my blog
[Happens often when low Alexa Ranked blogger comments on high Alexa Ranked blog]

4. I comment, you happy, but you never visit my blog ever
[Comments to a blog daily, but never receive a visit from the blogger]

5. I linkie you, you happy, but you never noticed me ever
[Tracked / pinged back an article, but the blogger did not even pay a visit]

There are probably more, but I believe the above five (5) ought to suffice for now.

Since we are talking about comments and blogs, do check out what Felix the 3rd World Blogger has to say about this issue, with his article titled [Commenting on Small/Medium Blogs vs “The Big Bad Competition” and Traffic]

Deimos Asks
Do you agree with what is written above?
Any questions to be raised?
Just ask Deimos!


10 Comments

  1. 30th January 2008 
    2:55 pm         

    vickie
    said the following:

    yes agree… I think i’m one of the blogger, visitor commend i didin’t reply SOMETIMES -.- yeah.. I know i’m not a good blogger too

  2. 30th January 2008 
    3:09 pm         

    Deimos Tel`Arin
    said the following:

    @Vickie:
    Aiya, these rules do not apply to leng lui blogger, know? 😳
    I think girls blogger can choose to ignore the comments. :mrgreen:
    You’ll be getting tonnes of them even if you don’t reply at all. 🙂
    Just realized that there is an error in my post! 😮
    Gah! Better edit it now. 😯

  3. 30th January 2008 
    7:36 pm         

    kljs
    said the following:

    Totally agree….. some people visit once, don’t come back again…. but asked to link to them….

  4. 31st January 2008 
    1:44 am         

    carol
    said the following:

    I reply to every comment left on my blog and when I find something good I link back to the site. I think that sometimes Blogger’s become self-centered and forget where they started from/

  5. 31st January 2008 
    10:31 am         

    Selene
    said the following:

    I completly agree on all five of those! I’ve experinced all of these. I wish everyone on the internet could read this article and make a pact to never commit these again. The internet would be a better place.

  6. 31st January 2008 
    10:33 am         

    Selene
    said the following:

    I completely agree on all five of those! I’ve experienced all of these. I wish everyone on the internet could read this article and make a pact to never commit these again. The internet would be a better place.

  7. 31st January 2008 
    10:36 am         

    Selene
    said the following:

    Double comment sorry. You can delete this and the repeat. Sometimes my connections slow and I don’t know if it went though.

  8. 2nd February 2008 
    9:50 pm         

    Maria
    said the following:

    I not only comment, I write about them in my blog too! Teehee

  9. 6th February 2008 
    12:15 pm         

    Deimos Tel`Arin
    said the following:

    @kljs:
    The Cyberspace is full of such insincere mofos, aye. ➡

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    @carol:
    Well, I try to reply to every comment left on my blog. 😕
    I do not reply instantly as I wanted to comment properly. 😯
    Unlike some bloggersd which replies insincerely. 👿
    Blogging is about networking with other sincerely. 😎
    People do forget where they came from, I guess. 🙄

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    @Selene:
    I believe that feat is impossible to achieve. 😮
    Though one can always start with the one in the mirror. 💡
    To change the world, start with oneself. 😉
    Methinks I’ll just leave them comments there instead. 😛

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    @Maria:
    🙂

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