Silent Thoughts - Irritation and Graciousness

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Graciousness

English Translation
When we are irritated by others,
it is actually because we are still lacking
in graciousness.

Original Mandarin Version
看别人不顺眼
是自己修养不够

Deimos Analyzes - For Non-Bloggers
Say you are driving and a guy cuts into your lane, what do you do? Do you feel extremely irritated because of his inappropriate driving manners? Or do you feel relieved, as no automobile accident occurred as a result of that and you carry on driving happily?

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How do you feel when some bloggers leaves insincere comments on your posts? In some cases, it is quite obvious that the commentator did not did not fully read the post before leaving a comment. Would you dislike that particular blogger for such an action? Or you do not mind that at, appreciate that blogger’s comment, and would continue to network sincerely with such bloggers? How would you feel?

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Deimos believes that if a person is very easily irritated, that person is at a disadvantage. Say at your work place, if you get irritated because of a particular colleague’s attitude, behavior, etc, how are you going to have a pleasant time at work? Can you concentrate? Can you perform well? Or will you be thinking about how irritating that particular colleague is instead?

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Are you easily irritated? Do you think it is a good thing to be easily irritated?

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11 Replies!

  1. On August 6th, 2008 at 10:52 am
    levian (272 comments)
    From Malaysia Malaysia
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    for “insincere comments”,
    i’ll first network with the blogger
    before i jump to any conclusion.
    but if it continues ..
    i’m gonna leave it aside, or more like .. ignore that person.
    :!:

  2. On August 6th, 2008 at 1:06 pm
    Nicole Price (100 comments)
    From India India
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    “Grace is a certain beauty of the soul, which wins the divine love…”
    - Thomas Aquinas.

    Getting irritated is counterproductive. We only harm ourselves. The irritating factor has long gone off leaving us to stay irritated. The answer is to ignore these factors.

  3. On August 6th, 2008 at 5:33 pm
    BaseGuardian (157 comments)
    From Malaysia Malaysia
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    I usually like to mind my own business, :twisted:
    and if things like this happened to me,
    I just do the best thing I always do, mind my own business :lol:
    As for the insincere comment if the link is to a drugs/sex/casinos links, I delete the link and review what he/she commented, if it’s appropriate I’ll release the comment, if not Akismet is the way :lol:

  4. On August 7th, 2008 at 12:37 am
    kljs (346 comments)
    From Malaysia Malaysia
    Using Mozilla Mozilla 1.9.1a2pre on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    I just hate people can comments on my blog after only reading PART of the posts. What the hell? At least FINISH reading it first before commenting!!!

  5. On August 7th, 2008 at 1:53 am
    nhuong (3 comments)
    From United States
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows Vista
    Said the following:

    If someone makes a mean comment on my blog, i would be happy. a comment is a comment. lol. it means people are coming to my site and reading and i am in one way or another is effecting them.

  6. On August 7th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
    Nicole Price (100 comments)
    From India India
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    Nhuong, that is a very positive way of looking at irritating visitors. I find it difficult when someone does that on my blog, but as you say, he has honored me by visiting the blog and commenting, so, better to accept the good with the bad, I suppose.

  7. On August 7th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
    kljs (346 comments)
    From Malaysia Malaysia
    Using Mozilla Mozilla 1.9.0.2pre on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    I also think like that, but sometimes, at least comment something that makes sense…

  8. On August 11th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
    Vertigo Guy (3 comments)
    From Canada Canada
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows Vista
    Said the following:

    Great post. Fortunately I haven’t had any nasty blog comments, so I’m not sure how I’d deal with them! :cool:

  9. On August 13th, 2008 at 7:47 pm
    elezend (126 comments)
    From Malaysia Malaysia
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows Vista
    Said the following:

    Sometimes it’s really irritating when someone gets on your nerve (doesn’t matter whether it’s because you’re gracious or not) therefore it totally depends on the two parties whether or not it’s irritating o.o

    If they suddenly cut my lane without blink blink, sure I will get mad >.< they didn’t study law is it?! :mad:

  10. On August 14th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
    Petitehye (6 comments)
    From Philippines Philippines
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 2.0.0.16 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    I get irritated easily especially when it is so irritating. I guess I have a low temper, I can’t control it.

  11. On September 19th, 2008 at 7:16 pm
    Eva White (6 comments)
    From India India
    Using Mozilla Firefox Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows Windows XP
    Said the following:

    I agree that a comment is a comment. As long as it is not outright spam. After all the person has taken the trouble to come to your site and punch in a comment. Plus getting irritated will not affect the other guy at all so why let it bother you?!

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